On the contrary, a real, authentic love feels obliged to the person who has accepted his love. The greatest experience in life is when you simply give without any conditions, without any expectations of even a simple thank-you. And the more you give it, the more you become capable of giving it. It is immeasurable, it cannot be exhausted. You will be able to give so much love-because it is not something that is exhaustible. “Knowing one’s original face is the beginning of a life of love, of a life of celebration. Love, Freedom, Aloneness: The Koan of Relationships That is the joy of love: the exploration of consciousness. You are trying to unravel a mystery that cannot be unraveled. You are trying to penetrate deeper and deeper into his realm of inner feelings, into the deep recesses of his being. You are trying to see the many facets of the other’s personality. Again and again, you are introducing yourself to each other. Relating means you are always starting, you are continuously trying to become acquainted. The furniture in the room is the same, but the man and the woman, they are no more the same. That is the difference between a thing and a person. He is no more the same person, so much has changed. And the man that you slept with last night, look at his face again in the morning.
Relate again, start again, don’t take it for granted.
So much water has gone down the Ganges she is somebody else, totally different. The woman that you knew yesterday is not there today.
How can you know the woman? How can you know the man? They are processes, they are not things. To think that you know your wife is very, very ungrateful. And to take the other for granted is insulting, disrespectful. Nobody knows either! It is impossible to know the other, the other remains a mystery. The woman thinks she knows the man, the man thinks he knows the woman. “Once you are in a relationship you start taking each other for granted-that’s what destroys all love affairs.
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